Access your Goddess-- for the run down and stressed
Did you know that female energy is 10,000x stronger than a man's certainty! Let's think about that for a moment. Oh Wait, ..how can we think about female energy when we have been brought up to be strong and independent. We have been brought up to think and act like a man and still we only get paid $77 per $100 compared to men. Why is that? what are we doing to ourselves?
A typical scenario in the working world of a mom bringing up her children goes like this. Mom wakes up exhausted, stumbles to get coffee and once the kids are up ...the race is on. While some dads may contribute to helping, the fact of the matter is, most don't. Mom usually gets the kids ready for school/daycare, prepares lunches, goes through bags/homework/any notes, gets herself ready, tries to tidy up a bit and either drops the kids off or puts them on the bus. Already mentally exhausted, she finds herself settling down and takes the long commute to work. After working a full day she may come home, get the kids and off to activities. After finally settling home for the night, she may make dinner, help with homework, take care of the pet, assist with baths, clean up, do laundry, pay bills and puts the kids to bed. This routine day after day seems relentless and leaves most women drained, resentful and bitter. So, how do we tap into our resources we were born with?
This, I know, can be a loaded question or you may look at it as the 8th wonder of the world but, in reality all woman have a gift that has not only been pushed aside, but put up on the shelf in the hall closet tucked away like our wedding albums. Oh wait, did I just mention the notorious wedding album that we all spent thousands on being tucked into the hall closet collecting dust? Yes, I did......let's open it for a second.
There you are on one of the most wonderful days in your life standing next to the person that you just vowed to love til death do you part. Look at how happy you were on that day.. Look at how you were looking at each other with love and passion. It is as if nothing mattered in the entire world but the person right next to you. You both had presence and would walk to the end of the earth for each other. You both had a smile on the day that could light up the world. What an incredible feeling!
So what happened? well, as time went on the both of you got so used to your routines that you forgot what brought you together in the first place. Then, enter stage left, kids began arriving into the picture. Although, not one of us would ever give up the fact that they were the greatest gift we were ever given and love them with all our heart, it just meant less and less time for the two of you. As nurturing as we are by nature we slowly began taking over and pushing our spouses away. Although, a lot of the times it was unintentional, it just happened as we knew we could do things faster and better because we have been accustomed to doing it our way. So, where did that leave our significant other, the person that gave you butterflies in your stomach when you first met? it left him feeling insignificant! When a man is pushed aside and feeling insignificant well, you might as well told him he has a terminal illness.
So now, you stand there with all your male energy, tired, drained, overworked, underpaid, bitter and resentful. Your relationship with your spouse is based on brief conversations and a few daggers being thrown at each other. You go to bed exhausted only to start again the next day.
What if I told you that a part of you holds the key to a better way? What would you do with this information? Before I indulge this information, ask yourself... are you ready to take your life to the next level?
If not, stop right here and continue living each day as you normally do but, if you are ready please read on...
I want you to close your eyes and visualize how you felt on your wedding day. Feel how beautiful you felt from the inside out. Feel the warmth of the sun or the love that enveloped you from head to toe. Breathe the way you were breathing on that day, walk the way you were walking. On that day you were a true goddess, and not only were you a goddess you were a goddess like no other! Your female energy sends waves around everyone. They couldn't help but stare at you. Now, as bitter as you may feel about your spouse right now for not contributing or doing his fair share, I want you to show him that inner goddess that was once you. Break down your wall that you have built high and tall. Take all that bitterness and brush it aside and stand there with courage. Let her stand there completely naked and vulnerable. Let her cry if she has to but tell him that you are not invincible. Your spouse has to see that this beautiful creature is unlike no other and that she needs him to survive. This inner goddess that is you, is desirable and (while making him significant again) should be worshipped. The more you allow your female energy to flow freely, the more he will feel certain. The love and passion will begin to come back as you remember how you felt on that magical day you took your vows....it's worth a try.
A typical scenario in the working world of a mom bringing up her children goes like this. Mom wakes up exhausted, stumbles to get coffee and once the kids are up ...the race is on. While some dads may contribute to helping, the fact of the matter is, most don't. Mom usually gets the kids ready for school/daycare, prepares lunches, goes through bags/homework/any notes, gets herself ready, tries to tidy up a bit and either drops the kids off or puts them on the bus. Already mentally exhausted, she finds herself settling down and takes the long commute to work. After working a full day she may come home, get the kids and off to activities. After finally settling home for the night, she may make dinner, help with homework, take care of the pet, assist with baths, clean up, do laundry, pay bills and puts the kids to bed. This routine day after day seems relentless and leaves most women drained, resentful and bitter. So, how do we tap into our resources we were born with?
This, I know, can be a loaded question or you may look at it as the 8th wonder of the world but, in reality all woman have a gift that has not only been pushed aside, but put up on the shelf in the hall closet tucked away like our wedding albums. Oh wait, did I just mention the notorious wedding album that we all spent thousands on being tucked into the hall closet collecting dust? Yes, I did......let's open it for a second.
There you are on one of the most wonderful days in your life standing next to the person that you just vowed to love til death do you part. Look at how happy you were on that day.. Look at how you were looking at each other with love and passion. It is as if nothing mattered in the entire world but the person right next to you. You both had presence and would walk to the end of the earth for each other. You both had a smile on the day that could light up the world. What an incredible feeling!
So what happened? well, as time went on the both of you got so used to your routines that you forgot what brought you together in the first place. Then, enter stage left, kids began arriving into the picture. Although, not one of us would ever give up the fact that they were the greatest gift we were ever given and love them with all our heart, it just meant less and less time for the two of you. As nurturing as we are by nature we slowly began taking over and pushing our spouses away. Although, a lot of the times it was unintentional, it just happened as we knew we could do things faster and better because we have been accustomed to doing it our way. So, where did that leave our significant other, the person that gave you butterflies in your stomach when you first met? it left him feeling insignificant! When a man is pushed aside and feeling insignificant well, you might as well told him he has a terminal illness.
So now, you stand there with all your male energy, tired, drained, overworked, underpaid, bitter and resentful. Your relationship with your spouse is based on brief conversations and a few daggers being thrown at each other. You go to bed exhausted only to start again the next day.
What if I told you that a part of you holds the key to a better way? What would you do with this information? Before I indulge this information, ask yourself... are you ready to take your life to the next level?
If not, stop right here and continue living each day as you normally do but, if you are ready please read on...
I want you to close your eyes and visualize how you felt on your wedding day. Feel how beautiful you felt from the inside out. Feel the warmth of the sun or the love that enveloped you from head to toe. Breathe the way you were breathing on that day, walk the way you were walking. On that day you were a true goddess, and not only were you a goddess you were a goddess like no other! Your female energy sends waves around everyone. They couldn't help but stare at you. Now, as bitter as you may feel about your spouse right now for not contributing or doing his fair share, I want you to show him that inner goddess that was once you. Break down your wall that you have built high and tall. Take all that bitterness and brush it aside and stand there with courage. Let her stand there completely naked and vulnerable. Let her cry if she has to but tell him that you are not invincible. Your spouse has to see that this beautiful creature is unlike no other and that she needs him to survive. This inner goddess that is you, is desirable and (while making him significant again) should be worshipped. The more you allow your female energy to flow freely, the more he will feel certain. The love and passion will begin to come back as you remember how you felt on that magical day you took your vows....it's worth a try.
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